It has been a Year… Wow!

On August 13, 2010 Gretrude Stroud, otherwise known to us as Memie, went “home” to be with Jesus. She was 95 and ½ and had lived a wonderful life. It was amazing how God worked out our schedule that week, so we would like to share a few details of the week:

  • Neal’s dad had deep brain stimulation surgery (in Baton Rouge) to help with his Parkinson’s disease on August 9 and 10 (Monday and Tuesday). Tuesday, during the surgery, Jennifer called Neal to confirm that the doctor agreed with us that she was indeed pregnant.
  • Neal dropped his Dad off in Pineville on Wednesday, leaving him with Clint, his brother, who drove down to stay with their dad for a couple of weeks.
  • After talking with Neal’s mother, they decided, with God’s prompting, it was time to head toward KY. With a 12 hour drive, they decided to break up the trip and plan to arrive on Friday afternoon, expecting Memie to have already passed.
  • We left on Thursday afternoon and stayed in Jackson, TN. On Friday, after a quick lunch in Nashville with our friend/musician, Andrew Greer, we started on the last 2 hours of our journey.
  • As mentioned, we did not think Memie would still be with us when we arrived on Friday afternoon, but she was and Neal got to spend the last hour and a half of her life here on Earth with her. Although she was not “alert,” after talking to her, she moved her leg and closed her mouth. We believe she indeed heard Neal talking to her (as well as the rest of the family). The grandfather clock struck 6 pm and before it was finished counting, Neal’s Aunt Betty saw a tear roll down Memie’s cheek and she stopped breathing.
  • We had been praying all week that we would be able to just make it to the funeral. We never thought we would see her alive one more time. It was more than what we could have asked for, God is so good! We can’t thank Neal’s family enough for the care and love they gave Memie over this last year and especially the last few weeks that were so tough.
  • Karen and Neal spoke at her funeral, reading Proverbs 31:10-30, The Virtuous Woman, and then sharing stories that related to some of the passage. She lived up to this passage of scripture in so many ways.

Merry Christmas!

It has been a non-stop year!  With lots of fun, a little sadness, and a lot of joy!

We are having another BOY!  Some time in late February or early March. Jennifer’s sister Angie (and John) are due with their second child a couple weeks before Jennifer is due!  Caden seems pretty excited about the baby and predicted that the baby was going to be a “boy” — a “BIG baby Boy.” So we’ll see if the rest of his prediction is correct.  Jennifer hopes not!

In February, we used our Disney Vacation Club points and took a 4 day cruise on the Disney Wonder. Caden enjoyed the plane ride to Orlando, exploring the cruise ship, the aquariums in Nassau, bike riding and the beach on Castaway Cay, the nightly musicals on board the ship, and of course all of the desserts (just like his Momma)!  His parents had a lot of fun as well.  There is a two part “trip” report with all of the details, photos and a link to more photos in this blog,  or just use these links: part 1; part 2

When we landed  in Jackson, MS, it was snowing. It snowed the entire trip back to Ruston and we woke up to a few inches of the snow the next morning.  Photos are mixed in with Trip Report #2.

On August 13, Gretrude Stroud, otherwise known to us as Memie, went “home” to be with Jesus.  She was 95 and ½ and had lived a wonderful life.  It was amazing how God worked out our schedule this week, so we would like to share a few details of the week:

  • Neal’s dad had deep brain stimulation surgery (in Baton Rouge) to help with his Parkinson’s disease on August 9 and 10 (Monday and Tuesday).  Tuesday, during the surgery, Jennifer called Neal to confirm that the doctor agreed with us that she was indeed pregnant.
  • Neal dropped his Dad off in Pineville on Wednesday, leaving him with Clint, his brother, who drove down to stay with their dad for a couple of weeks.
  • After talking with Neal’s mother, they decided, with God’s prompting, it was time to head toward KY.  With a 12 hour drive, they decided to break up the trip and plan to arrive on Friday afternoon, expecting Memie to have already passed.
  • We left on Thursday afternoon and stayed in Jackson, TN.  On Friday, after a quick lunch in Nashville with our friend/musician, Andrew Greer, we started on the last 2 hours of our journey.
  • As mentioned, we did not think Memie would still be with us when we arrived on Friday afternoon, but she was and Neal got to spend the last hour and a half of her life here on Earth with her. Although she was not “alert,” after talking to her, she moved her leg and closed her mouth.  We believe she indeed heard Neal talking to her (as well as the rest of the family). The grandfather clock struck 6 pm and before it was finished counting, Neal’s Aunt Betty saw a tear roll down Memie’s cheek and she stopped breathing.
  • We had been praying all week that we would be able to just make it to the funeral. We never thought we would see her alive one more time.  It was more than what we could have asked for, God is so good!  We can’t thank Neal’s family enough for the care and love they gave Memie over this last year and especially the last few weeks that were so tough.
  • Karen and Neal spoke at her funeral, reading Proverbs 31:10-30, The Virtuous Woman, and then sharing stories that related to some of the passage.  She lived up to this passage of scripture in so many ways.

The Fall was busy, as always, with Tech Football, a few more trips to Baton Rouge for Neal and his dad, and life in general.  Thanksgiving was spent with all of Jennifer’s family, there were 18 of us!  We got to spend some time with her precious grandmother who is 92.  Lots of good food followed by the Saints winning, ha!

We are excited about Christmas this year. We are celebrating it in Ruston and Neal’s family will be coming for Christmas!  Jennifer’s mom and dad will be stopping by for a visit after Christmas as well.

Neal just started his 15th year working at Lousiana Tech in the Division of Advancement (Alumni Center). Jennifer is in her 4th year of owning her own business, providing services through Early Steps as a Special Instructor to children that have developmental delays.

We hope your 2010 was as good as ours, and we wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

God Bless!

Neal, Jennifer, Caden, Baby Boy,  & Emma (the dog)

Gertrude Tichenor Stroud aka Memie

Born in Centertown, KY on Jan. 20, 1915
Departed on Aug. 13, 2010 and resided in Owensboro, KY.

Gertrude Tichenor Stroud, 95, of Owensboro died Friday, August 13, 2010 at her home. Gertrude was born on January 20, 1915 in Centertown, Kentucky to the late Clarence and Ollie Ashby Tichenor. She and Eugene Stroud , Jr. married on November 23, 1935. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband, Eugene, on December 19, 1992; two sisters, Dova Martin and Agnes Bishop; and two brothers, Carl and Ed Tichenor.

Gertrude is survived by her daughters, Betty Ellis of Stuart, FL and Patricia Breeding of Nashville, TN; sons, Joe (Mackie) Stroud, Donnie (Martha) Stroud and Jerry (Brenda) Stroud all of Owensboro; thirteen grandchildren, John Ford, Brad Ford, Bridget Mattingly, James Ellis IV, Tammy Lewis, Aprilea Stroud, Glenn Stroud, Neal Breeding, Karen Keller, Clint Breeding, Christy Dickerson, Ronnie Stroud and Allison Brant; sixteen great-grandchildren; several loving nieces and nephews; as well as her Third Baptist Church Family of which she was a member for over 60 years.

Services were held at 11:00a.m. on Monday, August 16, 2010 at the Chapel of James H. Davis Funeral Home and Crematory. Burial followed at Rosehill Cemetery.

Expressions of sympathy may be made to Hospice of Western Kentucky, 3419 Wathens Crossing, Owensboro, KY 42301 or Third Baptist Church Building Fund, PO Box 808, Owensboro, KY 42302-0808.

Wisdom, Got Any?

It has been a while since I’ve read and journalized my thoughts, when I set up my blog a while back, it was with intention of making myself write on a more regular basis, something I did in college and enjoyed.  What better book to journalize than the Bible?

But where to start reading?  How about Proverbs?  It is full of wise and cleaver phrases.

What translation?  NIV? New American Standard? The Living Bible? The King James?  How about a newer paraphrased translation, like The Message? (with a mix of NIV and maybe a few others, but sticking mainly with The Message).

Chapter 1’s thoughts.

Proverbs was written by King David (yes David and Goliath, that David’s son Solomon).  Solomon was told by God, if I remember correctly, that he could ask for anything that his heart desired.  He ask for wisdom.

I’m reminded in the first 6 verses, no matter how old I am, I should always be open to learning something new.  In the computer field that changes daily, this can get really tiring.  It is much easier to “rest” on current technology instead of reading about upcoming technologies.

In the next verses 7 to 19, I’m reminded to put God first.  I believe we are to submit to God, he should be number one in our life.  Submit is such a “bad” term in today’s society.  It sounds like weakness.  I believe it is just the opposite, when done in the proper context. It shows strength, in the ability to tame unbridled passions that tend to usually get us in trouble.  I’m also reminded of the important lessons that I learned growing up, how to treat people, how to work, how to be responsible, how to have fun, all of which I learned from my parents.

I hadn’t read “The Message’s” translation of this passage yet, and found the rest of the verbiage in this section rather funny.  The point is pretty clear, if our close friends are dragging us down, if they aren’t encouraging us for the good, then we don’t need to be around them.

The next set of verses, 20-33 warn against rejecting wisdom.  What person, in their right mind would reject wisdom?  Easily said, but pride, stubbornness, selfishness, can and have cause me and others that I know to rejected advice throughout my life.  Advice, that I know is wise advice, advice that has come from someone that has experienced life, learned from their mistakes, and become wiser from what they’ve learned, and is trying to prevent me from making the same mistakes as them. Yet I chose to not listen.

In the NIV translation, Simpletons (The Message’s word) is called “simple ones.”The Hebrew word rendered simple in Proverbs generally denotes one without moral direction and inclined to evil.  I would like to think that is not me, or most of the people that I know that reject wisdom.  But are we just as “ignorant” as someone that has no moral direction, for not listening?  Interesting question?

33, is a reminder what wisdom can bring

but whoever listens to me [wisdom] will live in safety and be at ease, without fear of harm.” Proverbs 1:33 (NIV)

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Proverbs 1 (The Message)
Wise Sayings of Solomon
A Manual for Living

1-6 These are the wise sayings of Solomon, David’s son, Israel’s king—Written down so we’ll know how to live well and right, to understand what life means and where it’s going; A manual for living, for learning what’s right and just and fair; To teach the inexperienced the ropes and give our young people a grasp on reality.
There’s something here also for seasoned men and women, still a thing or two for the experienced to learn—
Fresh wisdom to probe and penetrate, the rhymes and reasons of wise men and women.

Start with God

7 Start with God—the first step in learning is bowing down to God; only fools thumb their noses at such wisdom and learning.

8-19 Pay close attention, friend, to what your father tells you; never forget what you learned at your mother’s knee.
Wear their counsel like flowers in your hair, like rings on your fingers. Dear friend, if bad companions tempt you,
don’t go along with them. If they say—”Let’s go out and raise some hell.

Let’s beat up some old man, mug some old woman.
Let’s pick them clean and get them ready for their funerals.
We’ll load up on top-quality loot.
We’ll haul it home by the truckload.

Join us for the time of your life!
With us, it’s share and share alike!”— Oh, friend, don’t give them a second look; don’t listen to them for a minute.
They’re racing to a very bad end, hurrying to ruin everything they lay hands on.
Nobody robs a bank with everyone watching, Yet that’s what these people are doing—they’re doing themselves in.
When you grab all you can get, that’s what happens: the more you get, the less you are.

Lady Wisdom

20-21 Lady Wisdom goes out in the street and shouts. At the town center she makes her speech.
In the middle of the traffic she takes her stand. At the busiest corner she calls out:

22-24 “Simpletons! How long will you wallow in ignorance? Cynics! How long will you feed your cynicism?
Idiots! How long will you refuse to learn?

About face! I can revise your life. Look, I’m ready to pour out my spirit on you; I’m ready to tell you all I know.
As it is, I’ve called, but you’ve turned a deaf ear; I’ve reached out to you, but you’ve ignored me.

25-28 “Since you laugh at my counsel and make a joke of my advice, How can I take you seriously?
I’ll turn the tables and joke about your troubles!
What if the roof falls in, and your whole life goes to pieces?
What if catastrophe strikes and there’s nothing to show for your life but rubble and ashes?
You’ll need me then. You’ll call for me, but don’t expect an answer.
No matter how hard you look, you won’t find me.

29-33 “Because you hated Knowledge and had nothing to do with the Fear-of-God,
Because you wouldn’t take my advice and brushed aside all my offers to train you,
Well, you’ve made your bed—now lie in it; you wanted your own way—now, how do you like it?
Don’t you see what happens, you simpletons, you idiots? Carelessness kills; complacency is murder. First pay attention to me, and then relax. Now you can take it easy—you’re in good hands.”

Maybe Reform will Happen?

Yesterday, Bobby Jingdal lived up to his promise of reform and protecting us from “the good ol’ boys and girls” by vetoing the bill that the Legislatures had passed trying to raid (or should I say rape?) our State’s treasury.  The complete press release can be read here.

I don’t consider this issue over, at least not for me.  I will be e-mail my representatives, Hollis Downs and Bob Kostelka, sharing my disappointment with them for voting for this bill.  I plan to watch them very closely between now and re-election time to see if they will support the Governor on his reform agenda.  Depending on their support, I may or may not vote for them in the next election.
note: I believe Downs cannot run again due to term limits, which even makes less sense on why he voted for the raise?

If you live in Louisiana, I would suggest you do the same.  Who is your representative you ask?  (Don’t be ashamed, most of us stay so busy and don’t make time for politics, until something like this happens, me included).  You can find out on-line at: http://house.louisiana.gov/H_Reps/H_Reps_ByAddress.asp

If you wonder how your represnative voted, the results are also on-line:
http://www.legis.state.la.us/billdata/byinst.asp?sessionid=08RS&billid=SB672&doctype=VOTE